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Job Search Tips for the Highly Sensitive Person

<p><img class&equals;"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-6420" src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;collegecareerlife&period;net&sol;wp-content&sol;uploads&sol;2013&sol;08&sol;classified-job-ad-300x200&period;jpg" alt&equals;"classified job ad" width&equals;"300" height&equals;"200" &sol;><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Job searching for <a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;collegecareerlife&period;net&sol;career-planning-highly-sensitive-people&sol;">highly sensitive people<&sol;a> can be more stressful than it is for the average person&period; Although being an HSP is not a disability&comma; it does come with limitations&period; You may have trouble functioning in environments and situations that would not bother most people&period; And since highly sensitive people are a minority of the population&comma; others might not understand why certain tasks are more difficult for you or why little things bother you&period; A few guidelines to follow when searching for a job&colon;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<h3>Be Picky<&sol;h3>&NewLine;<p>Everyone should be particular to an extent when applying to jobs&period; But as an HSP&comma; you need to be especially careful when applying&period; You may feel pressure to apply to any job that comes along&comma; but quality beats quantity when it comes to a successful job search&period; If you know you&&num;8217&semi;ll hate a job based on the description or employer&comma; don&&num;8217&semi;t bother applying&period; You&&num;8217&semi;ll just waste time and create more stress for yourself&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<h3>Be Specific<&sol;h3>&NewLine;<p>Creating a list of requirements for your ideal job helps&period; No job will be perfect&comma; but you should have a set list of requirements that a job must meet&period; For some HSPs&comma; that may mean flexible hours while others may want a job with a quiet working environment&period; Know what you are willing to compromise on and what you have to have in a job&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<h3>Don&&num;8217&semi;t Make Rushed Decisions<&sol;h3>&NewLine;<p>Once you get an offer&comma; you may feel pressure to accept right away&period; However&comma; you shouldn&&num;8217&semi;t make a decision in the moment&period; Give yourself a day or two to think it over&period; Most employers allow for&comma; and even expect&comma; applicants to take time to consider an offer before accepting&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<h3>Ask Questions<&sol;h3>&NewLine;<p>Asking questions of a potential employer is an important step for any job-seeker&comma; but it matters even more when you&&num;8217&semi;re an HSP&period; Have a list of questions ready for your interviewer and make sure you get the chance to ask them all&period; If the interviewer doesn&&num;8217&semi;t give you a chance for questions&comma; follow-up with an email thanking them for their time and also include your additional questions&period; Make sure your questions are about the job tasks and work environment&comma; not about salary and benefits&period; Information about salary&comma; benefits and other perks can be covered once you receive a job offer&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<h3>Give Yourself a Break<&sol;h3>&NewLine;<p>It&&num;8217&semi;s often said that job hunting is a full-time job itself&period; But job searching can be very stressful and draining&comma; particularly for HSP&&num;8217&semi;s&period; Give yourself breaks between interviews&comma; ideally at least a couple of days&period; And don&&num;8217&semi;t spend all day applying&period; Apply to the jobs that match your criteria and don&&num;8217&semi;t waste time on ones that don&&num;8217&semi;t fit&period; Finally&comma; turn your communication notifications &lpar;ringtone and email&rpar; on and off at a certain point instead of leaving them on all day&period; Although you want to be responsive to potential employers&comma; you also need to set boundaries&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Job hunting can become stressful very quickly and they process can wear on an HSP more so than the average person&period; Therefore&comma; highly sensitive people should be very mindful of their needs and limits during the job search process&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><span style&equals;"border-radius&colon; 2px&semi; text-indent&colon; 20px&semi; 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