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5 Mistakes Women Make That Keep Them Out of Leadership Roles

<p style&equals;"text-align&colon; center&semi;"><img class&equals;"alignleft size-full wp-image-12251" src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;collegecareerlife&period;net&sol;wp-content&sol;uploads&sol;2019&sol;04&sol;computers-discussion-employees-1367276&period;jpg" alt&equals;"" width&equals;"1000" height&equals;"666" &sol;><br &sol;>&NewLine;Photo by Rebrand Cities from Pexels&NewLine;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Women are often under-represented in leadership positions&period; Unfortunately&comma; there are actions women often take or don&&num;8217&semi;t take that make them less likely to obtain greater authority in the workplace&period; Below&comma; expert Vicki Brackett explains five mistakes women make that keep them out of leadership roles&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>&nbsp&semi;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<h3><strong>Not listening to their gut or women’s intuition&period;  <&sol;strong><&sol;h3>&NewLine;<p><span style&equals;"font-weight&colon; 400&semi;">If something feels funny&comma; then pay attention to that sixth sense&period;  Women have a tendency to downplay their feelings as being &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;emotional”&period;  Women need to listen to the voice&comma; then ask questions to make adjustments in their decision-making process&period;  And if they change their mind – that’s okay too&period; Again&comma; that’s part of the process&period;<&sol;span><&sol;p>&NewLine;<h3><strong>Not taking credit when they do something well&period;  <&sol;strong><&sol;h3>&NewLine;<p><span style&equals;"font-weight&colon; 400&semi;">Men have no trouble taking credit&comma; but women feel that taking credit is self-serving and so they tend to pass the credit to everyone else&period;  When people give women credit at work&comma; they must acknowledge those people and thank them&period; A reference can be made to give a team credit as well&comma; but women must take their credit first&period;  An example of what to say is&comma; &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;Thank you&period; I enjoyed taking a lead role in the project&comma; everyone worked well together&comma; and the ideas were flowing&period;”<&sol;span><&sol;p>&NewLine;<h3><strong>Not asking for help&period;  <&sol;strong><&sol;h3>&NewLine;<p><span style&equals;"font-weight&colon; 400&semi;">It’s important for women to understand they don’t have to go it alone&period;  One of the biggest mistakes that women make is not understanding that people <&sol;span><i><span style&equals;"font-weight&colon; 400&semi;">want<&sol;span><&sol;i><span style&equals;"font-weight&colon; 400&semi;"> to lend a hand when they believe in you&comma; the company&comma; department or what they do at work&period;  By giving others the opportunity to help&comma; women position themselves as a leader and at the same time get the help they need&period; It’s not about feeling needy&comma; weak or unequipped to do something&period;  Allowing others to help puts women in the power position and this can be a spring board to a position with more responsibility&period;<&sol;span><&sol;p>&NewLine;<h3><strong>Not sitting in a power position at the conference table&period;  <&sol;strong><&sol;h3>&NewLine;<p><span style&equals;"font-weight&colon; 400&semi;">Men have no problem sitting across from the boss&comma; at the head of the table or next to a power player in the room&period; Strategically&comma; women must plan where they want to sit in the meeting and then make it happen&period; Remember that people will be watching gestures&comma; body positions and reactions&period;  Plan ahead and take that power place at the table&excl; <&sol;span><&sol;p>&NewLine;<h3><strong>Not speaking up&period;  <&sol;strong><&sol;h3>&NewLine;<p><span style&equals;"font-weight&colon; 400&semi;">Women traditionally care what others think because their egos do not work in the same way as men’s egos at work&period;  Even when women do speak up&comma; they tend to beat themselves up if everything they said wasn’t perfect&period; It doesn’t have to be perfect&period;  If unsure&comma; preface an idea with&comma; &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;One of the ideas I have been mulling over is” or &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;after gathering information and looking at the numbers&comma; a way we can do X is”&period; Everyone knows that great ideas take time to cultivate and perfect&period; Understand the mental process and participate&excl;<&sol;span><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><strong><img class&equals;"alignleft wp-image-12249 size-medium" src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;collegecareerlife&period;net&sol;wp-content&sol;uploads&sol;2019&sol;04&sol;Vicki-Brackett-1-214x300&period;jpeg" alt&equals;"" width&equals;"214" height&equals;"300" &sol;><&sol;strong><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>&nbsp&semi;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><strong>Author Bio&colon;<&sol;strong><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><span style&equals;"font-weight&colon; 400&semi;">Vicki Brackett has spent her entire career leading small&comma; medium and Fortune 500 organizations through start up&comma; turnaround and rapid growth scenarios&period; Brackett speaks&comma; trains&comma; consults and mentors leadership inside companies to help them with strategic planning&comma; employee engagement&comma; process re-engineering and moving key performance indicators in the right direction&comma; all while increasing employee satisfaction and retention&period; For more information visit <&sol;span><a href&equals;"http&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;theleadershiptoolbox&period;com" class&equals;"broken&lowbar;link"><span style&equals;"font-weight&colon; 400&semi;">www&period;theleadershiptoolbox&period;com<&sol;span><&sol;a><span style&equals;"font-weight&colon; 400&semi;"> or <&sol;span><a href&equals;"http&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;vickibrackett&period;com" class&equals;"broken&lowbar;link"><span style&equals;"font-weight&colon; 400&semi;">www&period;vickibrackett&period;com<&sol;span><&sol;a><span style&equals;"font-weight&colon; 400&semi;">&period; <&sol;span><&sol;p>&NewLine;

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