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When Your Career Isn’t Enough: The Power of Focus to Manifest Your Dreams

<p><img class&equals;"aligncenter size-full wp-image-12037" src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;collegecareerlife&period;net&sol;wp-content&sol;uploads&sol;2019&sol;02&sol;business-work-passion&period;jpg" alt&equals;"" width&equals;"1000" height&equals;"685" &sol;><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><em>Guest post by Elaine Howard<&sol;em><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>You set your career goals back in high school and now you’ve finally earned your degree and landed a job in your chosen profession&period; Congratulations&excl; You already know how to use the power of mental focus to your advantage&period; If you’ve entered an exciting field that you are passionate about&comma; your career may keep you focused in a positive direction for many years to come&period; My friend Dean Lomax from England is fortunate enough to pursue a career that is also his passion and I have seen the power of mental focus at work in his life&period; When I first met Dean in 2008&comma; he was a teenager determined to build a career in paleontology&period; Over the past 11 years&comma; Dean has not only achieved that goal&comma; he is now a multi-award-winning paleontologist and author&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>If your career choice was not necessarily your &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;passion&comma;” but one you chose for other reasons&comma; you may need a little help a positive mental focus for the next 30 or more years&period; It is important to understand that whatever you focus on- negative or positive- is what will tend to manifest in your life&period; I know this to be true because&comma; even after I achieved my own career goal to become an attorney&comma; I focused on what I felt was missing in my life and my worry&comma; doubt and fear created even more negativity&period; There were times I considered giving up- not only on my career but my life&period; My negative focus created a negative energy that kept people at a distance&comma; prevented doors of opportunity from opening and basically ensured I would not be happy&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>In 2005&comma; however&comma; I wandered into a fossil shop and bought a little dinosaur tooth that would change my life forever&period; My interest in that fossil awakened my passion for paleontology that radically transformed my life in a positive way and set me on a life-long quest for adventure&period; On the surface&comma; it appeared as though dinosaurs brought me back to life&period; In reality&comma; it was not dinosaurs that changed my life&comma; but my change in mental focus that broke the cycle of negativity and radically transformed my life for the better&period; And&comma; I didn’t even have to quit my day job&period; I’m still an attorney and have been for the past 25 years&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Some suggest that your &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;passion” is the one true calling that you should strive to make your career&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Others say that your passion is not &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;one thing” you pursue but something you find within yourself&period; Neither of those explain what happened to me&period; So&comma; I began to analyze my own transformation to get some answers&period; After doing so&comma; I realized my passion for paleontology had four essential characteristics that made it powerful enough to transform my life&colon;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><strong>1&rpar; It was positive and productive&period;<&sol;strong><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>This one’s quite simple- only something positive has the power to transform your life in a positive way&period; A negative pursuit &lpar;i&period;e&period; a harmful vice&rpar; will inevitably lead to negative consequences&comma; even if it makes you feel happy when you’re pursuing it&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><strong>2&rpar; I was genuinely excited about it&period;<&sol;strong><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Unless you are genuinely excited about your passion&comma; your interest will eventually fizzle and it will not have the power to transform your life for the better&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><strong>3&rpar; It was ongoing&period;<&sol;strong><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>For your passion to help you maintain a positive mental focus and to ensure that you stay on a cycle of positivity&comma; it must be pursued on an ongoing or at least a regular basis&period; Of course&comma; you will still encounter obstacles and the challenges of day-to-day life&period; That’s just part of being human&period; But staying positive mentally is a conscious decision that we must work toward daily&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><strong>4&rpar; I shared it with others&period;<&sol;strong><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>This is another simple but very powerful concept&period; If you are pursuing something you keep to yourself&comma; it is not likely to transform your life&comma; at least in a significant way&period; It is through the process of getting out there and sharing your enthusiasm that you will make new friends&comma; new opportunities will open&comma; and you will find your passion truly enriching your life&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>What are you focused on&quest; If you have a good job&comma; but still find yourself focusing on negative circumstances&comma; I encourage you to find your passion- regardless of whether you ever turn it into a career&period; When you are pursuing your true passion- one that meets the four criteria- your positive thoughts and enthusiasm will produce positive energy which will draw the best things possible into your life&excl;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><span style&equals;"font-family&colon; Arial&comma; serif&semi;"><b>Attorney Elaine Howard transformed her life from one of despair and hopelessness—after battling academic struggles&comma; low self-esteem&comma; and an eating disorder—to one of excitement and adventure when she inadvertently discovered paleontology&period; Over the past fourteen years&comma; Howard has become certified in fossil lab and fieldwork by the Wyoming Dinosaur Center and participated in many dinosaur digs&period; She continues to spend her spare time as an adventurer pursuing her passion for dinosaurs and other prehistoric creatures&period; As a certified coach and member of the Certified Coaches Alliance&comma; she is also on a mission to encourage others to find their own unique passion and allow it to transform their lives into an exciting adventure<&sol;b><&sol;span><span style&equals;"color&colon; &num;000000&semi;"><span style&equals;"font-family&colon; Arial&comma; serif&semi;"><b>&period;<&sol;b><&sol;span><&sol;span><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><b>Connect with Elaine Howard on Instagram <a href&equals;"http&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;instagram&period;com&sol;dinosaurlaine">&commat;dinosaurlaine<&sol;a> and visit <a href&equals;"http&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;passioninthebones&period;com&sol;">www&period;passioninthebones&period;com<&sol;a>&period;<&sol;b><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><b>Passion in the Bones&colon; A Guide to Breaking the Chains of Negativity and Living Your Own Adventure <&sol;b><b>is available in paperback and e-book on <a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;amazon&period;com&sol;Passion-Bones-Breaking-Negativity-Adventure&sol;dp&sol;1635765889&sol;ref&equals;sr&lowbar;1&lowbar;1&quest;ie&equals;UTF8&amp&semi;qid&equals;1543515353&amp&semi;sr&equals;8-1&amp&semi;keywords&equals;elaine&plus;howard&plus;passion">Amazon<&sol;a> and other retailers&period; <&sol;b><&sol;p>&NewLine;

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