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How to Adjust to Living on Your Own

<p><img class&equals;"aligncenter size-full wp-image-12146" src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;collegecareerlife&period;net&sol;wp-content&sol;uploads&sol;2019&sol;03&sol;apartment&period;jpg" alt&equals;"" width&equals;"1000" height&equals;"562" &sol;><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><span style&equals;"font-weight&colon; 400&semi;">You’ve just graduated from college&comma; and you’re about to jumpstart your career&comma; maybe even far away from home&period; Regardless if you’re moving on your own or with roommates&comma; it’s going to take some adjustment&period; In college&comma; you may have lived on your own in a dorm or apartment&comma; but you never were <&sol;span><i><span style&equals;"font-weight&colon; 400&semi;">really<&sol;span><&sol;i><span style&equals;"font-weight&colon; 400&semi;"> on your own&period; You had your family’s home to go back to on breaks and weekends to visit&period; This next step in your life is going to be different from anything you’ve experienced before&comma; which is both exciting and scary&period; Adjusting to living on your own will take time&comma; but it’s definitely doable&period; Here are some tips to make this transition a little easier&period;<&sol;span><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>&nbsp&semi;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><b>Practice independence <&sol;b><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><span style&equals;"font-weight&colon; 400&semi;">The post-grad period can be a little unsettling as you learn to officially stand on your own two feet&comma; but it’s a wonderful time to truly learn independence&period; For your entire life&comma; you’ve had a place to fall back on&comma; but moving forward&comma; it’s important to not rely on that mentality&period; Learn to fix things around your house on your own&comma; pay your bills on time&comma; and get things done yourself&period; Learning new skills sets will probably be the most challenging part of the adjustment period&comma; but it’s a crucial one&period; When you learn to become independent&comma; it will set you up for greater mental and emotional stability down the line&period; Knowing you’re able to not only survive but <&sol;span><i><span style&equals;"font-weight&colon; 400&semi;">thrive<&sol;span><&sol;i><span style&equals;"font-weight&colon; 400&semi;"> on your own will better prepare you for future relationships&period;<&sol;span><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><b>Budget&period; Budget&period; Oh&comma; and budget&period;<&sol;b><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><span style&equals;"font-weight&colon; 400&semi;">Moving out on your own will make you appreciate all the help your family has given you over the years&semi; especially when you realize how expensive having a phone bill&comma; car payment&comma; rent&comma; utilities&comma; and grocery bill are&period; It can be overwhelming figuring out how to budget your money for bills&comma; savings&comma; and still have money left over to spend on fun things&period; Nonetheless&comma; creating a budget is essential to managing your money and it will give you some peace of mind knowing where all of your money is going&period; Start by using a <&sol;span><a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;frugalrules&period;com&sol;budget-new-grads&sol;"><span style&equals;"font-weight&colon; 400&semi;">budgeting template<&sol;span><&sol;a><span style&equals;"font-weight&colon; 400&semi;"> to determine all of your costs&period; From there&comma; you’ll be able to have a visual of your money while feeling more in control&period; <&sol;span><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><b>Get into a routine<&sol;b><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><span style&equals;"font-weight&colon; 400&semi;">The best way to adjust to living on your own is by creating a routine that you can stick to and look forward to&period; Whether it’s waking up earlier&comma; preparing your meals for the week ahead of time&comma; <&sol;span><a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;forhers&period;com&sol;blog&sol;how-to-get-into-a-gym-routine"><span style&equals;"font-weight&colon; 400&semi;">establishing a gym routine<&sol;span><&sol;a><span style&equals;"font-weight&colon; 400&semi;">&comma; or enjoying a walk after work&semi; routines give you a sense of purpose and self-assurance&period; However&comma; make sure you choose a routine that’s realistic to ensure that you stick to it&comma; and revisit habits that don’t feel like they’re working for you&period;<&sol;span><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><b>Meet your neighbors<&sol;b><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><span style&equals;"font-weight&colon; 400&semi;">As an adult&comma; making new friends isn’t as easy as asking your childhood neighbor to play or asking your new dormmate to go to a campus event&period; However&comma; a great way to meet people while also making your living situation better is by going out of your way to meet your neighbors&period; Being friendly with your neighbors gives you a sense of security knowing that they’re more likely to look out for you and your apartment&period; When you run into a neighbor&comma; be sure to introduce yourself and make yourself open for conversation&period; You’ll gain a sense of belonging and feel more at home&period;<&sol;span><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><b>Learn to cook the necessities<&sol;b><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><span style&equals;"font-weight&colon; 400&semi;">In college&comma; a ramen noodle and mac n’ cheese diet may have worked for you just fine&comma; but as an adult now living on your own&comma; it’s time to <&sol;span><a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;tastingtable&period;com&sol;dine&sol;national&sol;easy-dinner-recipes-postgrad-twentysomething-learn-to-cook"><span style&equals;"font-weight&colon; 400&semi;">learn how to cook the essentials<&sol;span><&sol;a><span style&equals;"font-weight&colon; 400&semi;">&period; Not only does cooking help you budget by allocating money for groceries&comma; but it will also help you maintain a healthier lifestyle overall&period; You’ll be able to entertain when you have guests &lpar;perhaps your new neighbors&rpar; and feel more confident about your ability to cook&period; Start slowly by learning one new recipe per week&period; Before you know it&comma; you’ll have a whole list of go-to recipes you can choose from at ease&period;<&sol;span><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><b>Find a new hobby or passion<&sol;b><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><span style&equals;"font-weight&colon; 400&semi;">With so many obligations and distractions during college&comma; you may be confused and a little lonely once things settle down during the initial post-grad period&period; It’s good to embrace this time of solidarity to allow yourself to slow down and have an open schedule for yourself&period; Now is a great time to incorporate hobbies and passions into your life&period; Find <&sol;span><a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;theodysseyonline&period;com&sol;10-hobbies-start-college"><span style&equals;"font-weight&colon; 400&semi;">new hobbies you can start after college<&sol;span><&sol;a><span style&equals;"font-weight&colon; 400&semi;"> that you may have wished you had the time for prior&period; Try something out of your comfort zone and make sure to enjoy yourself&excl;<&sol;span><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>&lbrack;wpedon id&equals;&&num;8221&semi;11354&&num;8243&semi; align&equals;&&num;8221&semi;center&&num;8221&semi;&rsqb;<&sol;p>&NewLine;

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