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Always Right Addicts – Coping Tips

<p><img class&equals;"aligncenter size-full wp-image-11996" src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;collegecareerlife&period;net&sol;wp-content&sol;uploads&sol;2019&sol;02&sol;action-adult-advice-1120344&period;jpg" alt&equals;"always right addicts" width&equals;"1000" height&equals;"666" &sol;><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>We all know at least one &&num;8211&semi; that person who always has to be right&period; They talk over you&comma; dismiss your ideas&comma; and make you feel inferior&period; Oftentimes&comma; they don&&num;8217&semi;t recognize their behavior as anything bad&period; However&comma; they can create a toxic work environment for colleagues&period; Luckily&comma; there are ways to to deal with these individuals and still maintain a good professional relationship&period; Below we&&num;8217&semi;ve listed some coping tips for dealing with always right addicts&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>&nbsp&semi;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<h3>Acknowledge Their Viewpoint<&sol;h3>&NewLine;<p>The first step to communicating effectively with an always right addict is to acknowledge his or her viewpoint&period; Listen and respond to the individual&comma; letting him or her know that you&&num;8217&semi;ve heard what they have to say and will take it into consideration&period; Don&&num;8217&semi;t admit that you&&num;8217&semi;re wrong &lpar;unless you truly believe that to be the case&rpar; but simply listen&period; Always right addicts have a need to be heard and giving them a platform fulfills that need&period; However&comma; this does not mean you are admitting defeat&period; Simply hear them out and calmly proceed to defend your side&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<h3>Communicate in Writing<&sol;h3>&NewLine;<p>Communicating via writing helps ensure that your message gets across without interruption&period; Emailing the individual &lpar;and possible cc&&num;8217&semi;ing your boss&rpar; may be the ideal way to talk to someone that constantly interrupts or dismisses your ideas&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<h3>Reiterate Your Point&lpar;s&rpar;<&sol;h3>&NewLine;<p>When speaking with someone that can&&num;8217&semi;t be wrong&comma; it&&num;8217&semi;s easy to give in to the person&&num;8217&semi;s dominate personality&period; However&comma; you need to establish yourself as one who won&&num;8217&semi;t be dismissed&period; One effective way to accomplish this is to reiterate your points in a diplomatic and calm manner&period; Showing that you stand by your ideas may prevent the always right addict from walking over you in the future&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<h3>Recruit Allies<&sol;h3>&NewLine;<p>Having others &lpar;particularly those in charge&rpar; on your side helps when dealing with an always right addict&period; Talk to your coworkers and supervisors to get their input on your ideas&period; You may want them by your side when communicating with those who can&&num;8217&semi;t be wrong&period; Alternatively&comma; you can keep them in the loop by cc&&num;8217&semi;ing them in emails or bringing up their support of your ideas during conversation&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Dealing with an always right addict is not easy&comma; but the strategies above can help make things much easier&period; Never give into these individuals simply because it&&num;8217&semi;s easy&period; Establish yourself as one who will be heard and you&&num;8217&semi;ll earn the respect of your colleagues and possibly the always right addict as well&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>&nbsp&semi;<&sol;p>&NewLine;

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