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Expert Advice on Managing Stress after College

<p style&equals;"text-align&colon; center&semi;"><small><a title&equals;"Stress" href&equals;"http&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;flickr&period;com&sol;photos&sol;11121568&commat;N06&sol;4331097922&sol;" target&equals;"&lowbar;blank" rel&equals;"noopener"><img class&equals;"aligncenter" title&equals;"Stress" alt&equals;"Stress" src&equals;"http&colon;&sol;&sol;farm5&period;staticflickr&period;com&sol;4030&sol;4331097922&lowbar;7694d187e8&lowbar;b&period;jpg" width&equals;"553" height&equals;"630" &sol;><&sol;a><&sol;small><small> <a title&equals;"Alan Cleaver" href&equals;"http&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;flickr&period;com&sol;photos&sol;11121568&commat;N06&sol;4331097922&sol;" target&equals;"&lowbar;blank" rel&equals;"noopener">Alan Cleaver<&sol;a> via <a title&equals;"Compfight" href&equals;"http&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;compfight&period;com&sol;">Compfight<&sol;a><&sol;small><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p style&equals;"text-align&colon; left&semi;">As a college student&comma; you might think you&&num;8217&semi;ve got a good handle on stress&period; You balance school&comma; part-time jobs&comma; internships and extracurricular activities&period; Life after college should be a breeze&comma; right&quest; Not exactly&period; Academic stress is different than work-related stress&comma; and many different stress factors appear after college&period; We talked to <span style&equals;"color&colon; &num;0000ff&semi;"><a href&equals;"http&colon;&sol;&sol;stress&period;about&period;com&sol;bio&sol;Elizabeth-Scott-M-S-17577&period;htm" target&equals;"&lowbar;blank" rel&equals;"noopener"><span style&equals;"color&colon; &num;0000ff&semi;">Elizabeth Scott<&sol;span><&sol;a><&sol;span> from the About&period;com Guide to Stress Management about coping with the stress of transitioning to the working world&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<h3><b>Even those who are highly motivated and perform well academically find it difficult to adjust to the workplace&period; How is work-related stress different than academic stress&quest;<&sol;b><&sol;h3>&NewLine;<p>There are a few key differences&period;  In college&comma; you have a large group of people&&num;8211&semi;many of them friends&&num;8211&semi;who are all in the same situation&period; You can gain ideas and support from them&comma; and have an idea of whether or not you are on target&period;  In a workplace situation&comma; your responsibilities are more often unique to you&comma; and there is often a sense of competition rather than camaraderie&period;  Also&comma; in college&comma; all students are generally operating within a few years&&num;8217&semi; experience of one another&semi; in the workplace&comma; new workers find themselves at the bottom of a food chain that includes those who have been in the field for decades&period;  This downshift in support and relative experience can make a difference in how competent people feel&comma; and can bring unexpected stress&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Also&comma; the stakes are higher&period; When in school&comma; each class is compartmentalized&&num;8211&semi;if you make a mistake on a test&comma; there is another test coming&comma; and a clean slate with it&period;  Grades are cumulative&comma; but you start fresh with each class&semi; if you do poorly in one class&comma; professors in your other classes don&&num;8217&semi;t even know about it&period;  In the workplace&comma; you build a reputation that follows you&comma; and affects your livelihood for years&period;  If you are fired&comma; it is much more difficult to find another job&period;  This increased pressure can bring added stress&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Finally&comma; in college&comma; it is understood that you are in a time in your life that is reserved for learning and growing&comma; for exploration and mistakes&period;  In the workforce&comma; the time for trial-and-error is over&semi; you are expected to be a professional&comma; and to do your job well with no mistakes&period;  This is a subtle but significant difference that can be felt in higher stress levels&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Many new graduates also find themselves working in their field for the first time&comma; and often with large amounts of debt to start repaying&period;  In some ways&comma; these jobs often feel different from what was imagined&colon; perhaps less excitement&comma; heavier challenges&comma; or any of a number of real-world surprises that can set in&period;  New workers may feel anxious when they encounter such challenges in their jobs&comma; and wonder if they chose the right path&period;  The added financial pressure of living independently and repaying student loans can compound this anxiety significantly&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<h3><b>What are some common causes of stress for recent college graduates and what might they do to mitigate this stress&quest;<&sol;b><&sol;h3>&NewLine;<p><em><strong>Finances<&sol;strong><&sol;em><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Most college students have financial support from parents or student loans&period;  Upon graduation&comma; this support diminishes or disappears entirely&comma; and is often replaced with student loan debt that must be repaid&period;  This can be a huge shock for recent graduates&period;  Additionally&comma; many are shouldering the entire financial burden of independent living for the first time&&num;8211&semi;this is a significant change that can add quite a bit of stress&period;  Now is the time for a plan&excl;  There are many good books and other sources of sound financial advice that can enable people to set up a budget that can delineate both monthly expenses and long-term repayment of loans&period;  Knowing how much money can go to groceries&comma; rent&comma; and other areas of life is an important first step&comma; and seeing a budget laid out can diminish the anxiety that comes from not knowing if there&&num;8217&semi;s enough to make ends meet&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Another way to diminish financial stress is to find inexpensive or free ways to have fun and relieve stress&period;  College students usually know how to do things on the cheap&comma; but now that the social structure of college is in the past&comma; recent grads may need to find new habits to replace the old&period;  If they are used to going to the campus gym&comma; a neighborhood jog with a friend may be a necessary replacement activity&period;   Drinks in a bar may be too expensive for a while&comma; but having friends over to hang out is a low-cost alternative&period;  Adding new hobbies and interests can help keep people from feeling deprived&comma; and these new hobbies can be as inexpensive as learning something new through YouTube videos during down-time&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>If financial anxiety becomes too heavy&comma; or if adding credit card debt becomes tempting&comma; recent graduates may find it less stressful to have more work&comma; at least in the short term while they are building a financial safety net and nest egg&period;  Having an extra part-time job in one&&num;8217&semi;s field can help build skills and work experience&comma; and even a job unrelated to that field can be helpful in that it is a short-term solution that brings long-term benefits of greater financial security&period;  Finding ways to save money and adding a part-time job can help to balance the budget&comma; and knowing what the budget is is crucial to that&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><em><strong>Knowing The Next Steps<&sol;strong><&sol;em><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Many graduates become stressed just thinking about the future and what to do next&period;  Their entire high school and college careers have built to prepare them for this time in their lives&comma; and this can feel like a lot to live up to&period;  If these first jobs aren&&num;8217&semi;t living up to expectations&comma; this can bring a lot of anxiety&period;  Recent grads need to remind themselves that this is just the next step in the journey&comma; and that nothing is set in stone&period;  If their first job is not high-paying&comma; is not as enjoyable or fulfilling as hoped&comma; or is not even in their field&&num;8211&semi;these things can all change&period;  The important thing is that they are working toward a goal&comma; learning along the way&comma; and gaining skills and experiences just by doing what they&&num;8217&semi;re doing&period;  It may take a little longer than expected&comma; or things be taking a few detours along the way&comma; but this is a natural part of the journey&period;  Things can&&num;8211&semi;and will&&num;8211&semi;get better&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><em><strong>Work-Life Balance<&sol;strong><&sol;em><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>College life can be busy&comma; for sure&period;  Many students look forward to graduation as a time when the hard work of school is done and &&num;8220&semi;real life&&num;8221&semi; can finally begin&comma; bringing new freedoms and choices with it&period;  However&comma; the transition from college to full-time work can sometimes feel like moving out of the frying pan and into the fire&period;  The many responsibilities of full-time work and post-college life can be taxing&comma; and finding a work-life balance can be challenging at this stage&period;  Recent graduates need to remember to fit in time for relaxation&comma; self-care&comma; and their social lives&comma; while still maintaining motivation to work as hard as they can to prove themselves in their new positions&period;  Fortunately&comma; finding work-life balance can actually help workers remain motivated and stave off burnout&period;  The important thing is to keep this in mind&comma; maintain at least one relaxing habit&comma; and say no to energy drains as much as possible&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<h3><b>Any other stress reduction tips for graduates entering the workforce&quest;<&sol;b><&sol;h3>&NewLine;<p>Maintaining habits that reduce stress can add energy and create an &&num;8216&semi;upward spiral&&num;8217&semi; of positive feelings and attitudes&comma; and increase motivation as well&period;  Healthy habits developed now can lead to increased longevity and wellness as well as reduced stress in the long term&comma; so healthy habits created now bring a big payoff&period;  Getting regular exercise&comma; meditating regularly&comma; investing a little time in a relaxing hobby&comma; or getting together with friends often can all be effective habits to add to the schedule in order to help manage the effects of stress&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>For more information on stress management&comma; visit the About&period;com <span style&equals;"color&colon; &num;0000ff&semi;"><a href&equals;"http&colon;&sol;&sol;stress&period;about&period;com&sol;" target&equals;"&lowbar;blank" rel&equals;"noopener"><span style&equals;"color&colon; &num;0000ff&semi;">Guide to Stress Management<&sol;span><&sol;a><&sol;span>&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;

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