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<p><strong><em> by Kelsey O&#8217;Malley</em></strong></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">College can be a challenging and uncertain. There is much that is expected, and a lot that is unknown, as whole great big road rolls out in front of you. What’s more, each college provides its students different experiences, and every student undergoes that experience differently. There isn’t one rule book that will fit everyone, or one lesson that is applicable to all. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">With that said, here are some things that surprised me and things that I wish I knew when I was a freshman. </span></p>
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<h2><span style="font-weight: 400;">“Freedom” is not all you think it is</span></h2>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Many people get to college thinking that because they no longer live with their parents and there’s no after-school detention, they have the freedom to do whatever they want. This is idea is a sham. Although you do have freedom, you will be working way harder than you think.The reality is that if you want to win at college, you have to hold yourself to a pretty strict schedule. This is hard when the only person keeping you in check is yourself. </span></p>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400;">Friends, quality over quantity</span></h2>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Just like in high school, you meet a ton of people but you don’t necessarily stay close. A lot of your college acquaintances will fade, too after your graduate. </span><span style="font-weight: 400;">You should look for people who will make </span><i><span style="font-weight: 400;">real</span></i><span style="font-weight: 400;"> friends in college. This doesn’t just mean friends who are fun to party and hang out with, but also those who will nudge you towards a path of academic and professional success . Unless you’re very self-assured, it’s hard not to yield to your surroundings, and bad habits stick easy and die hard. </span><span style="font-weight: 400;">Once you find those few good friends, try to stay in touch if you can. </span></p>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400;">Family matters</span></h2>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">You will miss your family more than you think. Call your mom and dad once in a while. This might seem obvious, but it’s easy to forget in the whirlwind of college that they’re still there for you. Set up a time of the week and have it be a recurring event, it’ll make your time in school a lot easier. </span></p>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400;">You don’t have to be #1</span></h2>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Yes, grades are important and it’s good to do well. But, unlike H.S. where your grades determined where you went to college, a college degree is given to everyone equally as long as they pass the course curriculum. Unless you’re going to grad school or are dead set on that </span><i><span style="font-weight: 400;">summa cum laude</span></i><span style="font-weight: 400;">, you don’t have to be the absolute best in every class. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Its easy to get on a path of choosing easy classes because it will help boost your GPA and avoiding classes that are challenging, even though they’re interesting. My advice, take that risk! Don’t let protecting your GPA take away from exploring what really interests you. </span></p>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400;">Critical thinking, not mechanical memorization</span></h2>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">It’s going to be tempting to study for your classes the night before and then just content vomit the information the next day. This may work in the short-term (if that) but you’ll quickly notice that classes and concepts build on each other, and not understanding the basics early will hurt you when things start to get more advanced. </span></p>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400;">Choose your roomates wisely, best go with acquaintances</span></h2>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">College </span><a href="https://www.cosmopolitan.com/college/a58508/roommate-horror-stories/"><span style="font-weight: 400;">roommate horror stories abound</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;">. There’s no one size fits all checklist to choosing who you’re going to live with, but in general not opting for a total stranger or your best friend is a good rule of thumb. Broadly speaking, you should look for easy-going people who you’ll get along with, but won’t hang out with every second of the day.</span></p>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400;">Networking is a necessity</span></h2>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Not everyone has to be your friend, but you should try to be </span><i><span style="font-weight: 400;">friendly</span></i><span style="font-weight: 400;"> with everyone. College is a great time to meet future business connections, and closing yourself off to your inner circle of friends can lead to missed opportunities. Diversify your social scene and you’ll be better for it. </span></p>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400;">Tailor your curriculum to your needs and interests</span></h2>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Besides your core requirements there are usually a range of electives and concentrations you can choose from. Even more, each professor’s class provides unique experiences and takeaways. Choose the ones that will inch you closer towards your goal- they may not always be the easiest ones, but they’ll be worth it in the end. </span></p>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400;">You can push through, even when its overwhelming</span></h2>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">College can get insanely stressful and scary expensive, it’s tempting to give up mid-way through. This is rarely a good idea, especially if you’ve taken on debt and have no other way of paying it off. Its okay to transfer schools </span><a href="https://withfrank.org/frank-college-search/" class="broken_link"><span style="font-weight: 400;">to a college that is more affordable</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;">. It’s okay to pivot majors, but it’s not optimal to give up all together. Take a semester off or try out something new, but don’t outright drop-out. Dropping out puts all the costs of going to college on your shoulders, without any of the benefits. Even when things seem grim, know that it all gets done and that you’ve got this!</span></p>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400;">You don’t have to be pre-med to go to medical school</span></h2>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">If you are planning on going to medical school, you don’t necessarily have to take on a pre-med track. You can opt for another major, and simply fulfill the medical school requirements as well. It’s a good option if you want to have a backup degree to go along with your dreams of an M.D. </span></p>
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<h4><span style="font-weight: 400;">“Sleep more than you study, Study more than you party, party as much as you can”</span></h4>
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