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Nancy Parsons on The Glass Ceiling

<p><img class&equals;"alignleft size-full wp-image-13412" src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;collegecareerlife&period;net&sol;wp-content&sol;uploads&sol;2020&sol;01&sol;women-glass-ceiling&period;jpg" alt&equals;"" width&equals;"1000" height&equals;"667" &sol;><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>&nbsp&semi;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Although much progress has been made by women in the workplace&comma; they are still routinely bypassed for top level positions and promotions&period; When it comes to women in top leadership positions&comma; the trends are disappointing&period; In 2018&comma; the number of women CEOs fell by 25&percnt;&comma; leaving women holding a mere 33 or 6&period;6&percnt; of the top positions at Fortune 500 companies&period; Conventional wisdom holds that male-generated discrimination&comma; biases&comma; and sexual harassment are to blame&period; But according to <a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;nancyparsonsspeaks&period;com&sol;" target&equals;"&lowbar;blank" rel&equals;"noopener noreferrer">Nancy Parsons<&sol;a>&comma; an expert on the science of personal assessment and development&comma; the reason the glass ceiling remains firmly in place is because its primary root cause is misunderstood&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>&nbsp&semi;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>In her new book&comma; <a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;amazon&period;com&sol;Women-Creating-Glass-Ceiling-Power&sol;dp&sol;1948181800&sol;"><em>Women are Creating the Glass Ceiling and Have the Power to End It<&sol;em><&sol;a>&comma; Parsons reveals her groundbreaking&comma; scientific research to explain why the glass ceiling exists&comma; why women are responsible for it&comma; and how they can use proven and tested methods to finally break through to greater personal and professional success&period; We interviewed Parsons about the glass ceiling and how women can break through to achieve career success&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>&nbsp&semi;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<h3><strong>What exactly is the &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;Glass Ceiling” and who is responsible for it&quest;<&sol;strong><&sol;h3>&NewLine;<p><span style&equals;"font-weight&colon; 400&semi;">The glass ceiling is the invisible obstacle or barrier that holds women back from reaching the top executive positions in organizations&period;  In 1979&comma; the doors were at last opened for women to be promoted based on their talent and performance because of the US Pregnancy Act going into effect&period;  Even though it has been 40 years since the doors supposedly opened&comma; the numbers of women reaching the CEO or C-Suite level are dismal&period; Today only 6&period;6 percent of CEOs in Fortune 500s are women and only 11 percent of top earners are women&period;   Meanwhile&comma; every year since 1982 women have earned more bachelor’s degrees than men&period; Since 2005&comma; women have received more master’s and doctorate degrees as well&period; Given these facts&comma; it makes it all the more puzzling that women are not ascending to the top&comma; most coveted roles&period;  <&sol;span><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Through my firm’s research we found out what is causing the glass ceiling&comma; and it is not what people think&period;  People frequently suggest that discrimination &lpar;the good ole&&num;8217&semi; boy system&rpar; and gender bias are the primary reasons women are not rising to top levels&period; What we found is that most women&comma; contrary to popular lore&comma; are holding themselves back&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<h3><strong>How has the glass ceiling changed in the &num;MeToo era&quest;<&sol;strong><&sol;h3>&NewLine;<p>What has changed is that executive men and other men in key leadership and professional posts have become fearful about mentoring women and spending alone time with their female employees&period;  Men are more fearful about potential accusations and claims of sexual harassment or misconduct&period;  After the &num;MeToo movement in late 2017&comma; the case of the Judge Kavanaugh hearings in 2018 made matters even worse&period;  The assault allegations from Dr&period; Ford were from more than 30 years ago with no direct corroboration or evidence&period; Despite the lack of evidence and Dr&period; Ford’s sketchy memories&comma; &lpar;didn’t know dates&comma; locations&comma; how she went home&comma; etc&period;&rpar; Judge Kavanaugh’s career was nearly ruined and his reputation forever damaged&period;  Men are&comma; consequently&comma; more fearful of false allegations or complaints after seeing this highly politicized case play out across the media&period; So&comma; rather than helping women leaders more&comma; many men executives are pulling back or are more hesitant&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<h3><strong>Why are perceptions of women in the workplace often wrong&quest;<&sol;strong><&sol;h3>&NewLine;<p><span style&equals;"font-weight&colon; 400&semi;">I think everyone’s perceptions in the workplace are largely wrong when it comes to the glass ceiling&period;  Most people assume the glass ceiling exists because of overt discrimination and biases against women&period; In spite of the positive intent of many male executives &lpar;or you can say executive men&rpar; and the billions of dollars spent on women in leadership and diversity initiatives&comma; the glass ceiling remains as firm as ever&period;     <&sol;span><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><span style&equals;"font-weight&colon; 400&semi;">&OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;Through our research at my assessment company&comma; we found that the majority of women are holding themselves back&comma; and this is the reason the glass ceiling is nearly impenetrable to this day&period; This is not intentional or a conscious choice by women&period; What holds most women back is their inherent personality risk factor as &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;Worriers&period;” This risk factor causes women to become too cautious and more vigilant&comma; to freeze&comma; overanalyze&comma; or retreat&comma; and to go silent from fear they may not have the 100&percnt; correct response&period; They may seem invisible or lack confidence when facing tough situations&comma; which is contrary to what we expect of leaders&period; &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;<&sol;span><span style&equals;"font-weight&colon; 400&semi;"> <&sol;span><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><span style&equals;"font-weight&colon; 400&semi;">Meanwhile&comma; we found that men’s predominate risks are &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;Egotists&comma; Upstagers &amp&semi; Rule Breakers&period;” These risks help propel them forward&comma; despite the fact that the resulting behaviors are often inappropriate or ineffective&period;  The aggressive responses demonstrated by men are viewed as more courageous or leaderlike&period; On the other hand&comma; women are viewed as moving away or retreating from adversarial or stressful situations which is contrary to what we expect of leaders&period;<&sol;span><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><span style&equals;"font-weight&colon; 400&semi;">The rub is that both men and women are <&sol;span><b><i>equally<&sol;i><&sol;b><span style&equals;"font-weight&colon; 400&semi;"> well suited by way of personality character strengths to serve as effective leaders&period;  It is the personality-based risk factors that are pulling women out of the running&period; As Worriers&comma; they lose visibility and are not judged as having the &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;stuff of leaders” because they hold back&comma; study&comma; review&comma; and analyze more when facing adversity&period;  Women pull back to study and think&comma; rather than standing up to be assertive and fight&period; They don’t win the battles because they are not in them&period;<&sol;span><&sol;p>&NewLine;<h3><strong>Why is being a &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;Worrier” a self-defeating factor&quest;  <&sol;strong><&sol;h3>&NewLine;<p><span style&equals;"font-weight&colon; 400&semi;">Being a Worrier is a self-defeating factor because this causes the person to be focused on a fear of failure or a fear of making a mistake rather than focusing on the opportunities of success&period;  <&sol;span><i><span style&equals;"font-weight&colon; 400&semi;">So&comma; the individual tends to slow down decision making&comma; is too cautious&comma; over-analyzes&comma; requires too much study&comma; and is reluctant to make a decision or to defend a position when there is conflict or strong opposition&period;<&sol;span><&sol;i><span style&equals;"font-weight&colon; 400&semi;">  <&sol;span><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><span style&equals;"font-weight&colon; 400&semi;">While this person is often a strong performer in many ways&comma; this tendency to freeze in fear debilitates their effectiveness during challenging times&period;  They tend to go inside of their head to over-think and re-think rather than stand strong and move forward&period; <&sol;span><i><span style&equals;"font-weight&colon; 400&semi;">The self-defeating factor is they are often the person with the answers and the capability&comma; but they fail to step up and use it or communicate it with the appropriate timeliness or sense of urgency&period;<&sol;span><&sol;i><span style&equals;"font-weight&colon; 400&semi;">  By trying to get things 100&percnt; correct in the spirit of helping the company succeed&comma; they instead shoot themselves in the foot and fall off of the career ladder&period;<&sol;span><&sol;p>&NewLine;<h3><strong>How can women tap into their intelligence and skills to break through the Glass Ceiling&quest;<&sol;strong><&sol;h3>&NewLine;<p><span style&equals;"font-weight&colon; 400&semi;">First&comma; women should read my book&period;  What they will learn is that in order to succeed to their greatest capability – they must be deeply aware of their inherent personality-based strengths&comma; risk factors&comma; and intrinsic drivers and rewards&comma; &lpar;motivational needs&rpar;&period;Too many women &lpar;and men&rpar; are unaware or in the dark on what their true strengths are to a nuanced level&period; This is very important and serves to differentiate them from the crowd&period;  <&sol;span><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><span style&equals;"font-weight&colon; 400&semi;">Next&comma; knowing what intrinsically motivates or excites them is vital&comma; so they steer their career and performance by not only their strengths but by what they love to do&period;    <&sol;span><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><span style&equals;"font-weight&colon; 400&semi;">Lastly&comma; it is crucial that each woman be aware of her inherent risk factors&period;  Most people do not know what their risks are&comma; and these traits undermine their success and relationships frequently when faced with stress or adversity&period;  Everyone has risks&comma; but very few people are aware of their own risk factors&period; Once she learns what her risks are&comma; then she can take effective steps and develop tactics and skills to prevent her risks from undermining her success&period;  So&comma; the key to success is deep self-awareness&period; Without this knowledge &lpar;best gained via objective&comma; deep-dive assessments&rpar; careers and performance can suffer&period; Sadly&comma; women too often fail to live up to their promise and potential&period;<&sol;span><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>&nbsp&semi;<&sol;p>&NewLine;

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