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Maintaining College Friendships After Graduation

<p><img class&equals;"aligncenter size-full wp-image-11411" src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;collegecareerlife&period;net&sol;wp-content&sol;uploads&sol;2018&sol;04&sol;college-women&period;jpg" alt&equals;"" width&equals;"900" height&equals;"599" &sol;><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Making friends becomes less of a priority we get older&comma; despite the fact that friendships become even more crucial to our emotional and physical well-being&period; Between work and family obligations&comma; even the best relationships can deteriorate&period;  College provides the perfect environment for making friends&comma; and graduation shouldn&&num;8217&semi;t signal the end of our college friendships&period; Keeping relationships strong may require some extra effort&comma; so read on for some tips on maintaining friendships after college&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>&nbsp&semi;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<h3>Bridging the Distance<&sol;h3>&NewLine;<p>Studies have shown that proximity is important when it comes to making friends&period; It&&num;8217&semi;s also much easier to keep friends that live nearby&period; A common reason for friendship deterioration after college is distance&period; Everyone goes in different directions for work or graduate school and fails to maintain contact&period; Create a habit of sending regular emails or making phone calls to your long-distance friends&period; If possible&comma; find a great in-between location to meet up in person&period; Or invite your friend to your city and show her the sights&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<h3>Create a Routine<&sol;h3>&NewLine;<p>Sharing a routine can be crucial to keeping friendships strong&period; Whether your routine is weekly or yearly&comma; it will provide the perfect opportunity to catch up with your friends&period; You may have a daily walk together&comma;  weekly movie night or visit a favorite vacation spot together each year&period; Whatever you decide&comma; make it a priority and choose something you know will be easy for everyone to continue&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<h3>Go Beyond Facebook<&sol;h3>&NewLine;<p>Social media provides a good opportunity to stay in touch with friends&comma; but it shouldn&&num;8217&semi;t be the only point of contact&period; A strong friendship involves more personal interaction&comma; which may be accomplished by a face-to-face meeting for local friends or a phone call for long-distance friends&period; Friendships usually stall after college because good opportunities for interactions don&&num;8217&semi;t present themselves and no one takes initiative to create them&period; Make the first move by inviting your friends out for coffee or over to your apartment for a dinner party&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Friendships take work as we get older and allow connections to fade away&period; Don&&num;8217&semi;t let life get in the way of valuable relationships&period; Some friendships will inevitably die out&comma; but some will remain strong for a lifetime&period; For more on creating and maintaining friendships&comma; read <span style&equals;"color&colon; &num;0000ff&semi;"><a href&equals;"http&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;amazon&period;com&sol;gp&sol;product&sol;1618580140&sol;ref&equals;as&lowbar;li&lowbar;ss&lowbar;tl&quest;ie&equals;UTF8&amp&semi;camp&equals;1789&amp&semi;creative&equals;390957&amp&semi;creativeASIN&equals;1618580140&amp&semi;linkCode&equals;as2&amp&semi;tag&equals;colcarlif-20"><span style&equals;"color&colon; &num;0000ff&semi;">Friendships Don&&num;8217&semi;t Just Happen&excl;&colon; The Guide to Creating a Meaningful Circle of GirlFriends<&sol;span><&sol;a><&sol;span><img style&equals;"border&colon; none &excl;important&semi; margin&colon; 0px &excl;important&semi;" src&equals;"http&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;assoc-amazon&period;com&sol;e&sol;ir&quest;t&equals;colcarlif-20&amp&semi;l&equals;as2&amp&semi;o&equals;1&amp&semi;a&equals;1618580140" alt&equals;"" width&equals;"1" height&equals;"1" border&equals;"0" &sol;> &period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;

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