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How to Cope with a Difficult Job

<p><img class&equals;"aligncenter size-full wp-image-2270" title&equals;"WorkStress" src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;collegecareerlife&period;net&sol;wp-content&sol;uploads&sol;2010&sol;08&sol;dreamstime&lowbar;14268680&period;jpg" alt&equals;"" width&equals;"554" height&equals;"369" &sol;><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>With the unemployment rate still high&comma; many people are feeling extra pressure at work&period;  Employers are demanding more&comma; and offering less to employees&period; These factors are not only contributing to decreased job satisfaction&comma; but also to an increase in mental and physical health problems&period;  Some tips for dealing with a difficult work situation&colon;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><strong>Recognize the Positives<&sol;strong><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Any job should have some positive aspects&comma; so focus on those factors rather than the negatives&period; Every day&comma; try to think of one thing you really like and appreciate about your job&period; One method is to think of how your situations could be worse&period;  If one of your coworkers has a bad attitude&comma; you can be grateful that you don&&num;8217&semi;t work in an office full of similar people&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><strong>Personalize Your Workspace<&sol;strong><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>You don&&num;8217&semi;t have to clutter your desk with photos&comma; but it helps to have one or two personal items to help you stay calm when things get tough&period; Do you have a favorite funny or inspirational quote you can put up on your wall&quest; Maybe you have a photo from a favorite vacation spot&period; Think of what calms you down or lifts your spirits the most and find a way to incorporate that into your workspace&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><strong>Find a Positive Role Model<&sol;strong><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Every workplace has a variety of personalities&period;  There should be at least one person that has a positive attitude and responds calmly to stressful situations&period;  Watch how he or she reacts to negative events and try to emulate those reactions&period;  If possible&comma; find a positive network of coworkers to surround yourself with and avoid negative people as much as possible&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><strong>Assess Your Accomplishments<&sol;strong><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>At the end of every day&comma; think about what you&&num;8217&semi;ve accomplished&period;  These accomplishments don&&num;8217&semi;t have to be big&semi; it can be as simple as fixing your printer or helping out a coworker&period;  You might be surprised at how much you do every day and how many valuable skills you possess&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><strong>Stop Comparing Yourself to Others<&sol;strong><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Most people compare themselves to those with more&comma; rather than looking at how many people have less&period;  You might be earning less than a friend in the same field&comma; but you may also be earning more than many others in your industry&period;  Comparing yourself to those who have it &&num;8220&semi;better&&num;8221&semi; will only make you miserable&comma; so focus on the things that you do have &lpar;health&comma; good friends&comma; a job&comma; etc&rpar;&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>No job is perfect and no amount of advice can eliminate work-related stress&period;  You don&&num;8217&semi;t always have control over what happens at your job&comma; but changing your attitude and reactions can decrease your stress and give you a more positive outlook&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><&excl;--Digiprove&lowbar;Start--><span style&equals;"vertical-align&colon; middle&semi; display&colon; inline-table&semi; padding&colon; 3px&semi; line-height&colon; normal&semi; border&colon; 0px&semi;" title&equals;"certified 3 August 2010 02&colon;07&colon;39 UTC by Digiprove certificate P37071"><a style&equals;"border&colon; 0px&semi; float&colon; none&semi; display&colon; inline&semi; text-decoration&colon; none&semi;" href&equals;"http&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;digiprove&period;com&sol;show&lowbar;certificate&period;aspx&quest;id&equals;P37071" target&equals;"&lowbar;blank" rel&equals;"noopener" class&equals;"broken&lowbar;link"><span style&equals;"font-family&colon; Tahoma&comma; MS Sans Serif&semi; font-size&colon; 9px&semi; color&colon; &num;636363&semi; border&colon; 0px&semi; float&colon; none&semi; display&colon; inline&semi; text-decoration&colon; none&semi; letter-spacing&colon; normal&semi;" onmouseover&equals;"this&period;style&period;color&equals;'&num;A35353'&semi;" onmouseout&equals;"this&period;style&period;color&equals;'&num;636363'&semi;"> Copyright secured by Digiprove © 2010<&sol;span><&sol;a><&excl;--D25B1B3399B2DEAC288F72C69D35031FFA98BCA34137D2CD9443E2831E184AE5--><&sol;span><&excl;--Digiprove&lowbar;End--><&sol;p>&NewLine;

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